Outside the walls

Caring community, connecting, collaborating…

March 24, 2007 · 1 Comment

There are too many stories. How can anyone capture them all? If we take time to put them into words, we fear we’re missing something else (or we sacrifice in other ways, mostly sleep…). The team is trying to get themselves packed up and put to bed for a few hours before the bus pulls out of Hope City at 4:30 am. But I don’t want to put off sharing some of the amazing people we’ve met this week.

Take Jackie, for example. She and her mom, Beth, live in Ohio. How did they end up on our trip? Well, back in August of 2005 when Katrina hit, Jackie was 13. She watched the news in tears, and went to bed crying and wishing she could help. Her parents wisely told her to pray about it. The next day she announced that God had told her what to do: she was going to send water. Beginning with her parents’ business associates, she solicited donations from the community, her school, her church. After all the fundraising was done, she had $5,000. The next challenge was to get it shipped. Her perseverance led her to a church in Indiana where someone had a connection to a trucking company, and the company agreed to ship her water to Mississippi. But Jackie still had $2,000 left over! More research led her to contacting Hope City, and she’s been in touch with them ever since. In fact, she’s been begging to be allowed to go down to help, and finally the chance arrived. This week was her Spring break, and she’s been as tireless as any seasoned construction worker. A stomach bug got her down last night and this morning, but otherwise…what a trooper!

We were all blessed by meeting and getting to know the Kercher family. Their relatives, Darren and Annette, have moved down here so that Darren can do a two-year stint as the electrician for Hope City. Jeff, a machinist, was laid off up in Goshen, and so Jeff and Linda, along with Megan, Tiffany and Trenton, came down to help out. I wish I could introduce them all to you–maybe sometime they’ll come and visit. Jeff, a burly bearded guy with a great smile and permanent twinkle in his eye, is helping out here, there and everywhere; he always has a word of appreciation and encouragement for each of us. Linda is so funny, warm and eager to help. We instantly felt that we’d known her for years. Megan, a homeschooled senior, is gracious and lovely, a fine musician and a gentle spirit. Tiffany is more of a free spirit, and Trenton is an adorable little boy; he endeared himself to everybody in the camp. He talked Parris into playing ball, tagged along on all Buddy’s shopping trips, showed us pictures of a snow horse that Tiffany made last year, asked politely for cookies when he cut through the kitchen trailer.

Linda told me about Monte and Kim’s call to this camp ministry, and how hard it was for them to make the decision to leave Kim’s grandma, who’d been living with them for the past five years. On Wednesday this week, Kim–along with several friends who’d come down to help paint the double-wide trailer they’ve purchased to live in–left to drive back to northern Indiana. This morning, Kim’s grandma died after a sudden illness. Darren and Annette, Jeff and Linda gathered around to pray for a distraught Monte, who knew he needed to be up north to support his wife, but didn’t know what to do since he had no money to fly home and Kim had the car. Someone on our team started taking up a collection, and put an envelope in Monte’s hands on the way to the airport. Linda was in tears when she stood in the kitchen doorway talking to me. “You guys are so awesome. Did you hear what happened? You all raised enough money to pay for Monte’s ticket (over $300), with a bit over for meals for him. He doesn’t even know how much money is in that envelope. God is so good. Kim got to say goodbye to her grandma, and now God has closed that chapter in their lives and released them to move down here.”

Tonight Ken Wetzel came to visit us after dinner. Ken and his wife, Dawn, got caught in Katrina when Dawn was four months pregnant with their daughter, Elizabeth Grace.  Now 13 months old, Elizabeth flirted with all of us and charmed our socks off. I’m hoping Mark will post pictures of her, and some video of Ken, when we get back. Ken’s story of how they survived the hurricane and its drawn-out aftermath was harrowing. More than one of us gasped, groaned and wept during the hour he talked to us. I won’t try to distill it for you because I couldn’t do it justice. But Ken’s experience spurred him on to pour himself out in service to others, and last August on the anniversary of Katrina he was given a Medal of Honor by President Bush in recognition of his dedicated volunteerism.

I wish I could mention every single team member:  Paula, who doesn’t like leaving a job undone. Nancy, who wishes they could’ve done more repair work on the house were they were contracted only to paint. Parris, who’s been fighting a nasty cough all week, worked in the kitchen Wednesday and Thursday, and this morning agreed to be part of the last-minute crew who went and vinyl-sided part of the Wetzels’ house. Julie hates to leave, wishes she could just stay down here indefinitely. Stacey can’t make a fist with her right hand after building the foundation of Miss Ella’s house all week. Dr. Cook was still smiling when the siding team straggled back to camp at 5:45 just in time for dinner. He’s just glad to be feeling himself again. Sue had a ball working in the office the past two days, since we said goodbye to Valerie Cox. Len Moughler has a boisterous personality, a big voice and a bigger heart. If he wasn’t yelling at his team, he was teasing the cooks, always with a huge grin on his darkly tanned face. We had three pairs of sisters on the team: Laurie and Parris, Judy and Delores, Janelle and Doni. Stephanie-the-cop loves animals, and spent time each day greeting the three young dogs tied up at the back of Miss Ella’s property. She talked to Miss Ella’s son Danny as he helped them work, and promised to let him know if she ever gets married and has twins.

Five days. 35 people loosely gathered into a team, meeting up with dozens more on the staff, among the clients and the clients’ friends and neighbors. All part of a beautiful, shifting mosaic, each connection and each collaboration a work of art in its own right. And whether these connections are ever re-established in this life, every one exists in the mind of God, and forms a part of the masterpiece that He is creating of our lives.

The dining commons has gotten rowdy again. Another game of “Up the River, Down the River” (a card game which mystifies me from this distance) is going on…we’re holding on to these last couple of hours of comraderie. The bus tomorrow will be filled with whoops of laughter, sharing of snacks, exchanging of addresses and hugs. Nobody wants it to end. It’ll take time to fully process all we’ve seen, all we’ve learned. I hope that this blog has given our friends at home a glimpse of what a “church with feet on” looks like–this community, both smaller and broader than First Missionary, has made a ripple in the pond, one of so many spreading outward around this place. May this inspire others to cast themselves into whatever water God presents and become part of the masterpiece.

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  • Monte Brenneman // March 24, 2007 at 10:08 pm

    Hey Ya’ll,
    Where do I start? First of all I would like to give praise to God! He has been so good to us! We are coming out of a tough week, it’s Fri., but Sunday’s coming! God has been with us through it all, and I am thankful beyond words for His presence in our lives! To quote a song I heard on the way home from Indianapolis by Nichole Mullins, ” I’m so very, ordinary, nothing special on my own”. As I was flying home from Gulfport, I looked down and saw all the lights. I thought to myself that those lights represent people, and there were millions, and God knows everyone of us by name. Not only that but He has offered us, He longs for us to have a personal relationship with Him! When I talk to the Lord, I know I have His full attention! As I looked at those lights I felt a sense of awe and wonder. Holy, holy, holy, is the Lord God almighty! He alone is worthy of our praise! I hope that these words aren’t just a bunch of religious mumbo jumbo to you, as they may have been to me in the past. For those of you who know me, you can guess the state I am in as try to type this. It’s o.k., Jesus Himself wept! God is so good!
    Let me back up and bring you up to speed, as we have been so busy trying to get the trailer in shape and have been unable to write. On the way down, somewhere in Alabama at 3:00 a.m., Mom called and told me that my Uncle Jay had passed away. After talking it over with my family, we decided that we should stay and continue the work that the Lord has called us to. Thanks be to God that I have a family that “understands”. They laid Uncle Jay’s broken earthly vessel in the ground Tues.. He is without a doubt in the presence of the Lord, but he will most definitely be missed by those of us still here!
    As I wrote in the last letter, some friends went down with us to begin work on the trailer. They got most of the plumbing done, a new roof on, and a lot of walls ripped out and some painting done. The “sweet thangs” (Mississipian for young ladies, they use many terms of endearments for each other) that went with Kim were expecting to be painting, but we found mold in the walls and had to rip a bunch out. They graciously became a demo team. We were in despair because of the wrenches we were thrown, but God sent someone from HCRN staff to remind me that Satan would love nothing more than that we get discouraged!
    It was obvious that God arranged for First Missionary Church to be there with us this week as they were so helpful and encouraging to us. They pitched in and helped put the trailer back together and we shared communion together Thurs..
    I was trying to think of an economical (cheap) and quick way of getting the walls rebuilt. Drywall would take too much time because you have to tape and mud it, and have you priced paneling lately? Kim wanted to paint the walls anyway and paneling is hard to paint. The solution? 1/4″ Luan. As we nailed the plywood onto the walls, I thought of one of the houses in Gulfport we had worked on. We went in to fix some rooms up with drywall and saw that they had used 7/16″ osb plywood on some of the other walls. We thought at the time, these pooor people, they don’t even realize that that is not appropriate! When we went back 2 months later, the house was back in order and it looked great, osb and all! And Glenn and his wife (homeowners) were proud as peacocks! LISTEN! It’s not the walls, but what’s inside the wall’s that make a house a home! It’s not the building that is God’s church, it’s the people in the buildings everywhere who call on the name of the Lord, that is the church. It is First Missionary, it is YOU! We realize that this is not about our family, or our move, this is about us all! This is about God and His Son Jesus who died on the cross for our sins!
    So, while I was on the phone talking to Kim Fri. morning, Gma Rosie passed away. The sheriff and EMS came to investigate and were here until the funeral home came to get her body. I felt this was too much, being separated from my family after a tough week, so we booked a ticket for home and here I am. First Missionary paid for my ticket!
    I want to thank you all for the out pouring of support! Your prayers for us are being answered beyond anything we can ask or imagine! We have to leave now to meet with the funeral director. Please know that we are praying for you to! What an honor that we can pray for each other!
    Sorry this is so long, but for extra reading credit read Romans 10: 14,15

    In His Matchless Name,
    Monte, Kim, Samantha, Joshua, Shaina, Sophia Brenneman

    P.s. Please forward this to whoever you think is interested. We still haven’t received an e-mail list from
    HCRN. We are not officially on staff yet.

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